"I'm searching for my Mr. Right." Ni ler ayat yang slalu girls gunekan terutamanye dalam drama bersiri mahupun in real life... Betul ke ader Mr. Right? Is there really a perfect man for every girl in this world?
Aku rase terpanggil nak menulis pandangan aku pasal bende ni sebab recent event & setelah berborak ngan Ikrom... Girls, relationship doesn't come in perfect wrapping and fluffy ribbons, if you're expecting a Gucci diamond crested watch in it, It'll be a plain RM195 swatch... If you're expecting something big, then you'll be disappointed if it's not... If you're expecting Mike He Junxinag, then you'll be disappointed if it's Ako Mustapa.. So, what to do? Stop expecting all those nonsense, stop dreaming that there will be a day when Lee Dong Wook come to save and swept you off your feet to his castle of love...
But what's wrong with dreaming and hoping?? Actually I found that it's better not to do THAT so much (of course you could hope but don't go overboard with it). Because when you're hoping & expect, you might not be satisfied if he is just someone that you knew, someone you see everyday, someone near you... For me, Mr. Right doesn't come perfect, he might have some flaws, he might not look like Mike He, he might not be as rich as Datuk K (tak abis2... ahahha).. But, is he willing to Co-Operate with you? Compromise with you? Change for you? Wait for you? Be with you? Listen to you? Help you be a better person? etc...
So, do you have to accept everyone that has interest in you? No.... (Orang bukan kueh raye, amik sikit rase, amik sikit rase... pastu decide tanak kueh plak, nak kek lak..). For me, if you like him enough to love him, if he is serious and a good person.. then it's better to start then keep searching for someone perfect.. Work from that... Compromise with each other... Have a good discussion, tell him/ her what you need and expect from each other... Prepare to make sacrifices.. Understand each other and appreciate differences... (I really don't understand why people want to have someone that is so similar to them as their partner.. Wouldn't it be too boring? It'll be like you're living with your own twin.. huhuhu).
"Ala, ape susah... kawen a, suruh mak carik ke hape.. kan baik dari bercouple-couple ni.." Seriously, getting married doesn't solve anything.. relationship I'm talking about is not between dating couple, it's between a man and a women... Infact, if you're having this kind of attitude, it will just making it hard for both of you....
Ok la, membebel dah.. Ni cume pandangan aku.. tak semestinye betul and tak semestinya salah...
Kesimpulan:
1) Matanglah sebelum terlambat...
2) Aku tau nampak cam senang, but really.. Understanding and loving a cat is much easier than people...
3) Gamba di bawah ni tader kene mengena ngan isi.. Since name dier disebut 2 kali, kasik paste sikit a...
Picture was taken form tvbs, love contract page...
Name: Tido Alchemist
Bdae: 14 Feb 1984
Nicks: Arfa
Skool:Soton uni
Contact Me: @zazu
[[My Adores]]
Food: Mum's Cooking
Drinks: Cendol
Pastimes: Hmm..?
People: No comment
Animal: Any furry animal cam cc plak bunyinye
[[My Detests]]
People: Ehem..ehem..
Animal: Lizard & Frogs
Food: None
[[Ariel Lin: Fei Ni Mou Shu]]