As the philosopher Mick Jagger once said,
"You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime you'll get what you need"
- Quoting Dr. House md.
Life is hard people, even harder for some..
buy what you need, not what you want
eat when you need, not when you want it.
Life is much simpler in the olden days, people do what they do to survive, either legal or illegal, its not my place to say. Now, people waste resources to fill their ego and desire without any remorse, or even the slightest thought for the unfortunate. Filling your own pocket at other's disposal is not the way to live.
Why do all those people trick, steal and murder others? Most of them for reasons that you don't actually need, either on new branded goods, vacation houses, boats, cars or even wives. Although once in a while you do hear stories on how a poor person steal powdered milk for their children; the situation is however, rare.
Personally, I think the world would be a better place if people just take what they need. Moderation is the key. As proposed by Randy Marsh on his Theory of Moderation. Ahahaahah <-- only for south park viewers.
Kesimpulan:
1) Be considerate to others and try to live honestly.
2) I'm just sick watching all these..
Thanks everyone for the delicious cake, cards, gift and wishes... Actually I don't have any plan on writing anything significant about me getting old... So, what am I going to do on my 24th birthday? Writing project brief I am! huhuhu..
Kesimpulan:
1) I'm still alive.. ahahha
Alahai, dah dulu sume sibuk nak kawen (musim mengawan) ni skrang lak sume sibuk nak ber-anak pulak (musim apa ek??)... Aku tader la nak criticise hidup orang, tp ni cume pandangan aku je... Honestly, I'm not that fond of children [Kalo amik pics tu agak suke la, tu pun kalo comel, kalo yg huduh tu rasa nak muntah gak a.. aku tatau asal aa org splash gamba huduh anak deorg kat net... huhuhu kejam?? sorry, aku honest].
Kenapa aku tak suke?? Sebab kanak-kanak ni annoying!! Seriously, orang yg jarang jaga budak2 ni leh aa cakap: " Alaaaa comelnye, nak cubit2, nak gigit2, nak timang2 dier~~~~~".
Lagi satu yang biase aku dengar: "Sape yang tomel-tomel tuuuu??, nak cucu?? nak mamam???" (orang tu lak jadi budak2, kunun cakap bahasa budak2.. seriously, aku rase budak2 pun penin asal aa korang ckp camtu, pastu nnti dah besar marah kat dier ckp pelat lak.. adeke patut?)
Kalo korang penah jaga budak2, or ader adik2 yg korang kene jaga.. baru ko tau camne rasenyee.. rase nak baling ke dinding! Lagi-lagi kalo kene buat susu time korang tgh main ke, tgok tv ke... [ni dari my own experience.. aku ader 7 org adik beradik, aku anak number 2..]. Bukan la maksud aku aku benci ngan adik beradik aku, tp that is what I felt masa darjah2 dulu.. bukan benci, tp rase mcm menyusahkan.. tapi experience ni buat aku fikir bebetul about having my own children, kalo tak ready utk all these [listed below.. yang aku observe mak n bapak aku experienced] aku tak fikir aku nak anak sendirik:
1) bangun malam buat susu
2) demam, sakit kol 2-3 pagi
3) kencing berak time yang unappropriate
4) time ko nak suap nasik tu la dier nak gi toilet
5) tumpah food, kat umah orang lagi le (cam aku kecik2.. 10 umah aku singgah, 10 kali aa aku tumpahkan air)
6) accident kcik kat umah: langgar meja, jatuh tangga, terseliuh
7) mengada-ngada: gi kedai nak mainan, jajan, siap guling-guling kat kedai (malu gile tau! aku penah kene heret adik aku time dier ngamuk camnih)
8) gaduh ngan adik beradik: mak nak amik side sape, camne nak berlaku adil
9) yang mulut jahat lak camne nak deal: cam aku kecik2, sampai cousins aku sume takut ngan aku
10) camne nak suruh makan: problem jugak, ader je bebudak yg degil tanak makan
11) yang hilang time shopping, tersepit kat mesin gulung kain.. serious, ni mmg reality!
12) tu belum ko risau anak korang ikut perangai tak baik korang [cam aku kedegilan aku ngan mulut jahat aku..]
13) hish byk la yg aku tak reti nak tulis dah.. tu tadi baru toddlers, belum yang sekolah rendah lagi.
yang aku ingat sampai sekarang, mak aku jaga kitorang sampai kurus aa, bile sume dah besar2 ni baru la dier berisi sikit. Kenapa? sebab tak sempat nak makan. Asyik berlari kejar kitorang yg degil nih.
Maybe ni pandangan aku yang belum kawen dan tak matang ni, tapi aku rase pelik kat orang-orang yang baru je kawen then dah nak ader anak, especially yang duduk jauh-jauh from each other [sekarang cam trend lak orang kawen pastu duduk jejauh, weekend husband n wife term glamernye]. Kelakar pun ader aku tgok, bile orang berlumba-lumba sapa yang ader anak dulu... ahahaha adeehhh sakit pusat aku... Bagila relationship tu stable dulu, bahang kawen pun belum ilang, bau peluh each other pun tak kenal lagi dah nak tambah sorang ahli.. Kalo yang ader bibik or mak mertua yang offer nak jaga baby korang nnti bagus la, tp nnti sure baby tu tak kenal mak dier sendirik..
Anyway, aku ucapkan goodluck kepada sesape yang nak ber-anak dalam masa terdekat ni..
Name: Tido Alchemist
Bdae: 14 Feb 1984
Nicks: Arfa
Skool:Soton uni
Contact Me: @zazu
[[My Adores]]
Food: Mum's Cooking
Drinks: Cendol
Pastimes: Hmm..?
People: No comment
Animal: Any furry animal cam cc plak bunyinye
[[My Detests]]
People: Ehem..ehem..
Animal: Lizard & Frogs
Food: None
[[Ariel Lin: Fei Ni Mou Shu]]